Adventures with Dr. Lady Cutie Troublemaker

Life is in flux BIG TIME these days. I want to keep in touch with all of my peeps. The Internet is this beautiful thing. I can move to a brand new city and still stay in easy, near-daily contact with the people I love. When I feel connected to the people in my life that matter, I am unstoppable!

Françaises (French Things)

By Abby at 9:50 pm on Thursday, February 28, 2008

I’ve been struck down with a really annoying cold this week. I’ve spent most of my time in my apartment, watching bittorrented movies (I know, I know) and sleeping. After seeing Marion Cotillard win the Oscar, I was curious about La Vie En Rose. I’ve always liked Édith Piaf, and I knew that this film was about her life. What an astounding transformation. To see this pretty young thing at the ceremony, you’d never think she’d be able to alter every little thing about herself to create this flawed, fragile, deeply wounded character. Édith Piaf’s life was heartbreaking, every step of the way. After seeing the movie, I did some research and learned that she was only 4’8″. While she was married twice, the true love of her life was a world champion boxer named Marcel who was married with children. At one point, a movie was made about their love affair called Édith et Marcel. In this film, the part of Marcel was played by his real-life son. Weird, isn’t it? A man playing the part of his father while he was in an adulterous relationship? I wonder if his mother was still alive at the time of the film’s production? Anyway, I digress. My point is that I highly recommend this film.

Here’s Édith Piaf two years before her death, singing the song seen in that clip: “Non, je ne regrette rien” (No, I have no regrets). It’s clear in this video how utterly tiny she is:

A rough translation found on teh internetz:

No, nothing at all. I regret nothing at all. Not the good, nor the bad. It is all the same. No, nothing at all, I have no regrets about anything. It is paid, wiped away, forgotten. I am not concerned with the past, with my memories. I set fire to my pains and pleasures. I don’t need them anymore. I have wiped away my loves, and my troubles. Swept them all away. I am starting again from zero.

No, nothing at all, I have no regrets. Because from today, my life, my happiness, everything starts with you!

So after a French-tastic beginning of the week, I decided to go ahead and meet up with some friends to see Keren Ann and Dean & Britta. These are tickets I’d had for some time, so I loaded up on cold medicine and drove to Carrboro for the show. I’m so glad I did.

Keren Ann has an album that I’ve loved for a few years, but somehow I’d neglected to recall that she is, in fact, French. I thoroughly enjoyed her set and will definitely be spending more time listening to her.


This clip is very brief and is her singing a song in French at her show, but my favorite song she sang was this one, called “I’m Not Going Anywhere”

Dean & Britta are new to me. My friend Ayse is a big fan, and I’ve heard of his former bands Galaxie 500 and Luna before, but only in passing. I was pretty undecided about them during the whole set, but I kept feeling like they were very reminiscent of the legendary Serge Gainsbourg. Then, at the end of the show, they blew me away with a cover of the Serge Gainsbourg classic “Bonnie & Clyde”. Perfection! While I’m not a new massive fan, they sure have my respect for their performance of that song, as well as at least one other song that I really enjoyed.

This isn’t the best writing I’ve ever done. I’m still pretty out of it, but I’ve decided to try and pull myself back to help starting tomorrow, even if I have to fake it. Maybe by the weekend, my brain will work properly again.

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Black Cab Sessions with Okkervil River

By Abby at 10:47 pm on Sunday, February 24, 2008

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Traveling Light

By Abby at 1:23 am on Sunday, February 24, 2008

From Eat Pray Love by Elizabeth Gilbert:

“I seriously believed he was my soul mate.”

“He probably was. Your problem is you don’t understand what that word means. People think a soul mate is your perfect fit, and that’s what everyone wants. But a true soul mate is a mirror, the person who shows you everything that’s holding you back, the person who brings you to your own attention so you can change your life. A true soul mate is probably the most important person you’ll ever meet, because they tear down your walls and smack you awake. But to live with a soul mate forever? Nah. Too painful. Soul mates, they come into your life just to reveal another layer of yourself to you, and then they leave. And thank God for it. Your problem is you just can’t let this one go…You can’t accept that this relationship had a real short shelf life. You’re like a dog at the dump, baby–you’re just lickin’ at an empty can trying to get more nutrition out of it. And if you’re not careful, that can’s gonna get stuck on your snout forever and make your life miserable. So drop it.”

“But I love him.”

“So love him.”

“But I miss him.”

“So miss him. Send him some love and light every time you think about him, and then drop it.”

There was a time maybe four years ago when I might have read this and thought that there was no way in hell it was true. I like the idea of taking a relationship that was significant, putting it in the museum in its place, honoring it for its importance, and moving on. I think I’ve done that. Shelf life times of course vary. Mine was pretty damn long, and I wouldn’t have given it up for the world. But I also wouldn’t have given up my life since for the world, because it is mine, and it has made me who I am today. I realized recently just how baggage-free I am. And when you travel through life pretty free of baggage, and that freedom has come from a lot of work and communication at times when it wasn’t easy, you don’t want to load up your cart with just anyone. I have this Pollyanna-ish idea that being picky is good, and that as long as I live my life well and focus on creating a good life for myself, the right person to share my life with will eventually emerge.

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Still Flickring

By Abby at 1:43 am on Friday, February 22, 2008

Some Recent Favorites

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I’m Cured!

By Abby at 1:00 pm on Wednesday, February 13, 2008

For the last few years (since Memphis, now that I think about it), I have have a recurring problem with my wrist. I have assumed it was due to overuse of the computer, so I slap a wrist brace on for a few days, and it gets a tad better… a tad. I even stopped doing yoga because of it. I thought it was maybe early arthritis or tendonitis or carpal tunnel or something. Today I finally saw the hand specialist. Guess what! It’s just a ganglia cyst. I got a cortisone shot in my wrist. “How often to I have to get these?” I asked. “Just today.” In disbelief, I clarify, “And then it’s better forever?” “Should be.” !!!

How often does that happen? One shot fixes this long-term problem. That’s all I needed. Dang. Maybe western medicine DOES have something to offer me. I’m always so skeptical.

No more pictures like these:

Me and The Lady

Me and Me and Orbital Debris

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