Adventures with Dr. Lady Cutie Troublemaker

Life is in flux BIG TIME these days. I want to keep in touch with all of my peeps. The Internet is this beautiful thing. I can move to a brand new city and still stay in easy, near-daily contact with the people I love. When I feel connected to the people in my life that matter, I am unstoppable!

30 Days

By Abby at 9:59 pm on Sunday, June 19, 2005

I TiVo’d Morgan Spurlock’s 30 Days. Looks really interesting. Will let you know how it is.

Just watched it. The premise of the show is that each episode is him putting himself in another person’s shoes for 30 days. This first episode was really good. Morgan Spurlock and his fiancee Alex try to live on minimum wage for 30 days. Of course, they are educated, White, and articulate. They don’t have many of the barriers that many people have living on such little money, and they also don’t have the time to build up alliances with other people going through the same thing, so they don’t have time for interdependence. Still, I can forgive that because they do a really good job of sticking to the parameters they set for themselves enough to make the important points about how minimum wage and the American health care system are sub-adequate for basic subsistence. I will definitely be watching this again.

Morgan would have gotten an A+ in my Multiculturalism class. Their major project was a Resistance Project. Here is a section of the guidelines I gave my students at the end of the semester before writing their final paper on the project:

Your Resistance Project is the culmination of all of the work you have done this semester on your resistance group. For this project, you began by completing an approved reading on the group that you feel resistant towards. This prepared you for an interview with a member of that group. In that interview, you had a chance to hear their personal story about being a member of this group. Hopefully, you were able to listen to their story on its own terms and recognize the filters that you yourself had as you listened to their story. Your background and upbringing… in other words, YOUR cultural experiences have caused you to feel some judgments towards this group. That is normal and expected, but hopefully, through this project, you understand just a little bit better than your way of seeing the world is only one of of countless ways of seeing the world. Your last experience was to attend a "happening" related to this group. You may have attended an OUT Meeting or attended a worship service that was different from the type of service you grew up attending. You may have volunteered at a soup kitchen, or gone somewhere else that, prior to this project, you never would have before experienced. I hope that you really challenged yourself and stepped out of your comfort zone.

I see this project as a model for how you address resistance in your life. It is my hope that now, when you encounter difference, your will be aware of your judgments and what it is about you that leads you to have them. I am not naive. I know that you will always continue to judge people who are very different from you. We all do it, but this project has asked you to question your judgments and to place them in the proper context. Your judgments about another person are not truth. You have them for a reason. When you analyze them, you learn a lot more about yourself and your personal comfort zone than you learn about the person you have judged…

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Sweet Boy

By Abby at 11:26 pm on Saturday, June 18, 2005

Aaron’s done it again. I didn’t think I’d see him until maybe August, and on Friday night, at 5:43pm, I received a picture message on my phone. It was a pictures of Aaron with his car behind him, next to mine. The text said, "Me now." Then there was a knock on the door. He couldn’t even stay 24 hours, but man, I am seriously lucky. SERIOUSLY lucky. He totally wins the prize for BEST BOYFRIEND EVER!

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The Gorgies

By Abby at 9:22 pm on Wednesday, June 15, 2005

The Gorgies are gorgeous! I’ll take the whole set. Shit, makes me wanna start smoking again!

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No They Dih-int!

By Abby at 7:17 pm on Wednesday, June 15, 2005

Wacko indeed!

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Tiny Jack

By Abby at 2:34 pm on Wednesday, June 15, 2005

Just got this e-mail:

Congratulations!

Your recent post to moblogUK has been selected by a community editor as an outstanding photo

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I’m dogsitting for tiny Jack for the next two weeks!

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