Adventures with Dr. Lady Cutie Troublemaker

Life is in flux BIG TIME these days. I want to keep in touch with all of my peeps. The Internet is this beautiful thing. I can move to a brand new city and still stay in easy, near-daily contact with the people I love. When I feel connected to the people in my life that matter, I am unstoppable!

Wholesome Fun

By Abby at 6:35 pm on Saturday, June 16, 2007

I have two thoughts in my head: 1) What’s wrong with me?! and 2) Good girl!

Dave asked me to sing “Goldfinger” at the Carolina Rollergirls’ Award Ceremony/Prom tonight, and I’ve opted out in order to go to DVD night and have wholesome fun. Katy better have fun enough for the both of us… and not forget her camera either! I hope I don’t regret it. It could be quite the “hoot”!!

I just haven’t been in the mood for anything too smoky or late recently. With all this studying, I need to be rested and alert!!

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A Fear

By Abby at 12:30 pm on Wednesday, June 13, 2007

I heard a phrase this morning and it definitely felt significant. I’d say it’s my greatest fear in any kind of relationship, just because of my personality:

You carry out your own agenda quietly because to challenge her would be too much.

I don’t want to be that woman. I TRY not to be, but I’m not really sure I succeed. I should add this to my quotes page lest I forget about the dangers inherent in being both (1) a demander of truth and (2) unwilling to sit quietly when I don’t like the truth I hear. Instead, I demand truth AND I demand the right to speak my mind about that truth, no matter if my response is positive or negative. I feel like that should be OK, but I’d say that in reality, it has often caused problems. Perhaps I’m not convinced that willingness to bend on these points is something I should do.

All I know is that lies are not OK with me. I always want the news (especially the bad news) sooner rather than later, so I can respond in the way I want. Protecting me from the truth never goes over well.

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Unwell Yet Entertained

By Abby at 12:01 pm on Monday, June 4, 2007

I’m living in a land of Chloraseptic. My health hasn’t been great since Friday. I woke up feeling kind of puny, but I still went to the gym, and UGH, it all felt more difficult than it should have. That night, I woke up in a sweat and had a HORRIBLE experience which I won’t go into, because I’m a nice person who has learned that some things really are TMI. I will share that in order to break the fever, I had to slide into a bath of cold water. After that, I felt absolutely fine. Not sure if it was MSG or food poisoning or what… but it was bad. Very bad. Saturday was feeling cranky and low in energy. Then yesterday, I woke up with a raw throat and a regular old cold. Still have it today.

The good news is that my friend Jeff has loaned me the full series of the Joss Whedon television series, Firefly in order to prepare for a screening of the movie Serenity. It’s much more sci-fi than I would have chosen on my own, but I am really enjoying it, and now that I’ve gotten through enough of the exposition, the humor is starting to kick in. That always helps me. I’m also quite pleased about the inclusion of Alan Tudyk, who I’ve noticed for years. His character is great. He’s the competent pilot of the ship (very Millenium Falcony, if you ask me) who is married to the badass warrior woman, Zoe. I particularly enjoyed his initial scene in the series, where he is playing with plastic toy dinosaurs while sitting in the cockpit. He’s making the dinosaurs fight and says, “Curse your sudden but inevitable betrayal!” I guess I like sillies, and for the first few hours of this series, these are few and far between.

There’s lots more to say about life, television, and illness, but I wanted to launch the new (and probably dynamic) design of the blog with words rather than more pictures. I’m mostly expressing myself visually these days, and I don’t want anyone to worry I’ve gone mute (as if you’d think something like that!).

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Alabaster

By Abby at 12:20 am on Thursday, May 31, 2007

I’ve been messing around with some great editing tools lately. I’m really proud of these reedits of some self-portraits I took a while back:
Lipstick Reedit Somewhat Picasso-esque Reedit

I also can’t delay in publicly thanking Jen for her generosity. She has a new Canon SLR that she brought out tonight just so I could play around with it. THANKS, JEN! In some ways it’s torturous to experience how easy it is to take wonderful pictures with a better camera knowing that it will be a LONG WHILE before I’m able to buy one, but it’s also motivating and exciting. One day… or maybe sooner if Canon sees my plea!

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Run Ins, Both Real and Virtual

By Abby at 11:59 am on Thursday, May 17, 2007

Speaking of Web 2.0, I’ve had 3+ not necessarily unwelcome, but unprepared for run-ins this week. One was on the street, “IRL” as we say on the internets. The other 2+ were online. People who live nowhere near me popped up in a way I wasn’t expecting, and I wasn’t ready for it. This is one of the both fortunate and unfortunate aspects of life in the small town that is the internet. I can run into exes I don’t want to see, or long lost friends I’ve wondered about for years. I think that on the whole, I like it, but it makes social negotiations awful tricky. I have to set my filters, friend levels, contact lists, etc, so that I’m not running into people I don’t want to run into when I’m least prepared. And sometimes I don’t like the ways I have to set them, because I’m filtering out more than I want to…

As always, the cardinal rule is “Never accept an invitation to go crazy”. If a repeated run-in is causing me undo stress, gotta do what I gotta do. As my friend Jason has always said, “It’s just the internets”.

Decline Insanity

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