Adventures with Dr. Lady Cutie Troublemaker

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Kitty Cats and Red Things

By Abby at 11:18 am on Sunday, March 19, 2006

Jeep has just curled up next to me in a little ball on the couch. She never does this. I just e-mailed another report to my boss. Right now, life is OK.

I’ve dealt with a few emotions in the last few days that were new to me: rage, distrust. I’m starting to realize how rare it must be to make it to my age without experiencing these feelings. It hasn’t been pretty, and the result of my seeing red was that I caused some of my friends to see red with regards to me, too. I get it. I was just there two days ago.

The color is starting to fade, although it rises up and down with each hour that passes. Dad says that the trick is not to do anything. For the last month, I’ve had that post breakup insanity that requires extreme reliance on friends. "Hello, friend? Having a crazy thought. Talk me down." He says the difference between real insanity and this sort of situation-induced insanity is the knowledge that it is a temporary state, that it is irrational, that it’s time to call a friend rather than act. The system short-circuited a few days ago when not only was I seeing red, but so were all of my confidantes. It’s a popular color, I guess.

Jeep has just rolled over, revealing her soft underbelly. She’s using a paw to cover her eyes, blocking the sun coming in the window. 

I wonder if Kristin would be up for a late brunch at Centre Street Cafe. 

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Comment by Elizabeth

March 19, 2006 @ 1:56 pm

Isn’t it great/crazy how animals can be so perceptive?

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Comment by Annetastic!

March 19, 2006 @ 2:47 pm

It’s true! They are! My cat bites my face when I cry ’cause it makes me laugh.

Plus, petting cats slows your heart rate so that you can relax. Or so I’ve been told.

Kitties rule!

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Comment by Abby

March 19, 2006 @ 2:54 pm

It really is (great about the perceptive thing). My girls are my heroes. They have been such wonderful companions to me these last 8 1/2 years. They make wherever I live home.

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Comment by Dianne

March 19, 2006 @ 6:01 pm

I feel the same way about cats. The lastest one, my boy Cosmo, wondered into the yard a month after I lost my girl cat Jade almost 4 years ago. He is definitely my baby boy. They do take care of you too.

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Comment by Robin

March 20, 2006 @ 1:49 pm

I love how receptive cats can be…my cat Aurora has no interest in snuggling except when she knows I don’t feel well.

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Comment by Kristin Mac

March 20, 2006 @ 3:35 pm

Brunch was delish and fun!

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Comment by Abby

March 20, 2006 @ 6:15 pm

It really was. Thanks so much for coming. I called Kristin up, and I’m like, “You wanna go to the Centre Street Cafe for brunch?” LOOOOONG pause… “Man… OK, for YOU, I’ll do it!” Apparently, she’d just walked past the long line outside minutes before, muttering “chumps.” And then I asked her to be a chump, and she was! Because she’s the coolest friend EVAR! the food was awesome. Her company was tons of fun, and her advice right on the money. Thanks, Kristin. You totally made my day.

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Comment by poornima

March 20, 2006 @ 7:02 pm

Sometimes you got to do what you got to do. There may be no logic to it or diplomacy, but if you are pushed to a place from where you realize that your trust has been betrayed, it can make anyone see red.
So I do believe that you dont need to apologize or make up for it. A blog is after all a very personal form of expression. People cannot expect you to post happy and fun things all the time. Life throws everyone bummers and sometimes it just feels good to vent it all out.

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Comment by Abby

March 20, 2006 @ 8:05 pm

I still feel like I stepped over some very real boundaries that shouldn’t have been crossed. That said, I did check that the person I wanted to see that post the most was online at the time, and I notified them of its existence. It stayed up for less than 20 minutes. Even though I wanted to set off a nuclear bomb at the time, I think a better part of me was still alive somewhere.

Anyway, I get what you’re saying, but I think my little bomb could have been exploded in an inbox. I’ve always said about my life that I have no regrets. I have one now.

But you know what? I forgive myself. I have to.

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Comment by Emily

March 20, 2006 @ 8:11 pm

wow. Still justifying.

Good thing the links to my real name, place of work and anonymous writings are forever preserved in Bloglines so you could make a point.

good on you.

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