Adventures with Dr. Lady Cutie Troublemaker

Life is in flux BIG TIME these days. I want to keep in touch with all of my peeps. The Internet is this beautiful thing. I can move to a brand new city and still stay in easy, near-daily contact with the people I love. When I feel connected to the people in my life that matter, I am unstoppable!

Spooky Video Release for Halloween Week

By Abby at 2:01 am on Tuesday, October 30, 2007

Just spotted this on The Mountain Goats blog. It’s “Coffee” by Aesop Rock, and make sure you watch the whole thing. The last minute features John Darnielle (Mountain Goat extraordinaire). It’s a different sort of use of his voice, but it’s perfect. Just perfect!


I usually embed video, but I couldn’t get autoplay to turn off, and noone likes autoplay!!

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It’s Raining, So Heed Lesley’s Warning

By Abby at 3:22 am on Saturday, October 27, 2007


A Message From Lesley from abbyladybug on Vimeo.

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Local and Classical

By Abby at 3:32 pm on Friday, October 26, 2007

It’s a big classical music weekend in Abby’s world. Forget Stars and Annuals, how about Carmina Burana and the WCPE Pledge Drive?!

Negative of My Score

Last night, Carmina Burana opened at Memorial Auditorium at the Progress Energy Center downtown. If you don’t know this piece, then you’re confused. I first heard it in the movie Excalibur, and it’s remained a popular piece for movies ever since. The North Carolina Master Chorale (including Yours Truly) is singing, and the Carolina Ballet are dancing. I am really enjoying the clever choreography, although truth be told, that guy dancing the role of the devil wandering around without a shirt has caused the soprano section to be a little fuzzy on some of our entrances. It’s REALLY distracting! The man is a machine. Muscles on top of muscles, as the kids say. Overall, the dancing is really good, and I’m so excited I get to see it so many times this weekend. It seems far from selling out. If you’re looking for something perfect to do on a rainy day or night, there are still performances Friday and Saturday nights and Saturday and Sunday matinees. Tickets.

The Devil Has Delts

More photos

This morning, I drove up to WCPE in Wake Forest and spent 2.5 hours answering phones for their annual pledge drive. My friend Tara is a DJ there, and I have been promising to come help for weeks. I FINALLY got around to it this morning. Very exciting stuff. If you ever listen to WCPE, do please call in and make a donation. It’s how they broadcast 24 hours a day. Even $10 is good. Online pledge form.

Listen to WCPE online.

David Ballantyne & Terry Marcellin-Little, Announcers at WCPE

David Ballantyne and Terry Marcellin-Little ran from the studio out to the phones when the music began in order to check how we were doing on our hourly goal. There was a lot of leaping up and down and high-fiving when lots of calls were coming in!

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The Neverending Symphony

By Abby at 9:30 am on Friday, October 26, 2007


Find more videos like this on Inman Middle School

Shannon and Todd have not changed. Thank DOG!

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Tristan and Lesley

By Abby at 4:55 pm on Thursday, October 25, 2007

There’s really just too much to say about my high school reunion. It was overwhelming and wonderful in countless ways. As my friend Lesley kept saying, “We went to high school at a really special place.” I couldn’t agree with her more. Northside was part of the Atlanta Public Schools. It was the magnet for Performing Arts (yes, like “Fame”!), yet it was located in one of the richest parts of the city. We also had the only German and Russian classes in the school system so some kids came for that. As a result, we had kids from every part of the city. Some were in the performing arts program. Some weren’t. When kids got kicked out of the fancy private schools of Northwest Atlanta, they went to their home school, which was my school. We had extreme diversity in every way you can imagine. We had people from every part of the city, every income bracket, and racially, I recall that we were around 50/50 black/white. I’ve heard other figures, but for all intents and purposes, that’s about how it felt. At the time, there wasn’t much conflict between black and white, but there was division. The football team was mostly black, as were the cheerleaders. The Latin club and the soccer teams were more white. These are just examples, but it was true in many ways. The only exception to this was the School of Performing Arts. I think that because we were engaged in cooperative activities, we knew each other better there. Still, at both this reunion and the one I went to 10 years ago, we all talked about how that kind of diversity changed us. Pretty Kumbaya experiences, and I mean that in the best way.

The Most Significant People of My High School Years

One thing that was really special about this weekend was that I had a chance to spend a lot of time with both Lesley (my best friend in high school, even though she didn’t arrive until senior year) and Tristan (my high school boyfriend). While I have been in touch with Lesley since high school, Tristan reminded me that we hadn’t seen each other since early 1991! I couldn’t believe it had been that long. In retrospect, looking back at both my high school experience and at the weekend, I think that my relationships with these two people made me who I am today. First love is expected to do that, and Tristan and I were together for about three and a half years. We had some turbulence at the end of that relationship and got a chance to talk about some of those things. I wouldn’t have guessed I needed it, but now that it’s happened, I’m so glad it did.

There were some things I learned about Lesley that I never knew, even though we’ve always been close. She said that before she moved to Atlanta, she hardly ever went out. She didn’t have many friends because she was expected to babysit for her much younger brother, and she had an after-school job. For her, moving to Atlanta was a real blossoming period for her. That time was the same for me. She assumed I’d always been one to have lots of adventures. I assumed she always had. I think at the time there was some perception among others that we were being party girls, but knowing what was actually going on, that wasn’t true at all. I still got straight A’s that year. I probably smoked more cigarettes than before, but I wasn’t drinking or doing drugs or getting into any real trouble. I was just having a whole lot of fun. I also think people didn’t know how bright Lesley was. She was never as into academics as me (although I’m sure her grades were fine), but she is smart as a tack. Ask her anything. ANYTHING! If she doesn’t know, she will be an expert by the end of the day. I’m so glad she’s moving back to Atlanta, because that means I will see her more. Excellent news for me!

Of course it was wonderful to see Caitlin, Renee, Tatyana, Eric, Todd, and so many other great friends from back in the day, but I felt that I needed a bit of an ode to the two biggies: the two that made me me and with whom I’d somewhat fallen out of close touch. I will always be grateful to them both. There may be times I feel frustrated that I am single right now, but I never go a day where I don’t feel loved by my friends.

Soon, I’m going to write about my evening with Todd and Shannon… another complete treat that I wasn’t at all expecting.

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