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Happy 40th Anniversary, Mom & Dad!

By Abby at 7:10 pm on Sunday, June 18, 2006

Tomorrow, June 18th, will be my parents’ 40th wedding anniversary. They were married on June 19th, 1966 in Memphis, Tennessee not far at all from where I lived last year. For their honeymoon, they drove all around the South, along the Gulf Coast, and in to New Orleans. We talked about having a big party for them, but what they wanted was to follow this course once again, not only as a celebration of 40 years together, but also to see the coast after Katrina. They were in Jackson on a Habitat for Humanity build, but that was a work trip. This trip is more about exploration, I think. I called Dad for Father’s Day – it took a while for my brain to remember they were on this trip – and he talked about how there is just nothing along the coast from just East of Biloxi on west to NOLA. And he says the outskirts of NOLA are a wasteland. He said that if you squint, it looks OK, but when you focus your eyes, you can see that all these places are abandoned. I’ve spent a lot of time in New Orleans over the years. I can’t imagine driving in without seeing all the normal life alerting you to the upcoming city. If you’re walking down Bourbon Street past Lafitte’s Guest House, look up on the balcony and wave. That’s where they will be. And tell them Happy Anniversary.

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Comment by Kathy

June 19, 2006 @ 9:41 am

Happy Anniversary!! 40 years. Damn. Good for you!
Lots of love to you both.

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Comment by Smoooochie

June 19, 2006 @ 9:44 am

Happy Anniversary and congrats on your 40 years together. Hope the Gulf trip is going well and look forward to pictures.

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Comment by David and Caroline

June 19, 2006 @ 10:20 am

Have a great trip on the coast. May you have many more years of companionship together. We are approaching 41. Life is grand, or at least better than the alternative.
When is the great camping trip to the West? I hope to motorcycle to Montana in Aug.

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Comment by RoseMary

June 19, 2006 @ 11:09 am

Mickey and Sharon –

It has been too long since we’ve communicated! Congratulations on this milestone… we’re in the fortieth year – we’ll catch up with you in March ’07.

We wish you the best in the years ahead, as we always have. We love both of you dearly, together and separately, and hope to see you more after retirement – ten days left!

Love, RoseMary and Robert

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Comment by Gail

June 19, 2006 @ 12:32 pm

Sharon and Mickey — Wow! happy anniversary… you two married forty years — you must have been 10 and 11 at the wedding! sharon, you sounded excited about the trip when we spoke for a nanosecond on the phone last week. it’s great of abby to give us an easy way to “send you a card” that you will actually receive on time! hope that both of you are really relaxing and enjoying the moment and the reminiscences. a visit with you guys later this summer would be a treat…. love and all the best for two people who have put a lot of heart and soul into a lot of things, including being married four decades… gail

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Comment by Adam

June 19, 2006 @ 3:53 pm

40 years! Rock and roll!

woo and hoo!

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Comment by Andy & Jane

June 19, 2006 @ 4:09 pm

Has it been 40? Wow. Seem just like yesterday. Happy damn anniversary. We hope you have many many more.

Andy n Jane

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Comment by Dianne

June 20, 2006 @ 12:21 pm

A little late, but Happy 40th Anniversary. Looks like your parents have a great time traveling together.

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Comment by Abby's mom

June 20, 2006 @ 7:13 pm

Thanks everyone, and especially you, Abby, for alerting all our friends so that they could send us messages. We’re not home yet. We decided to detour past Jackson, MS where we built a Habitat house for Katrina refugees earlier this year. We wanted to see the house, and it looks fabulous. Oprah had all the lawns landscaped, and the city refinished the street. The Boones talked us into spending the night, so we’re here now.

We talked about our 40 years together while on this trip and both decided we’d made the right choice in a partner and that we’d do it all over again. Part of it has been our wonderful friends – like family to us. Love to all of you.

Sharon

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Comment by Abby

June 20, 2006 @ 7:36 pm

Now see, it’s having parents who have a relationship like that that keeps my hopes up. I mean, it is possible, right?! 😀

Way to role model, folks!

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Comment by Renee

June 20, 2006 @ 9:07 pm

Congrats to you both! My folks have theirs on the 26th. I’m lame and forgot the number, but I think it’s 41… Glad you found such a meaningful way to celebrate!

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Comment by Mike and Shirley Lupfer

June 20, 2006 @ 9:17 pm

Just returned from a long weekend of comping/hiking in Western North Carolina to learn about the celebration of your 40th. Many congratulations. If I’d been alert, perhaps we (and John Simmons) could have rented the condo on Goodlett and restaged your wedding reception. Now that would really have been retro!

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June 24, 2006 @ 5:11 pm

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