Adventures with Dr. Lady Cutie Troublemaker

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Peterson, Kitty, Lizzy-Poo, and More

By Abby at 11:54 am on Saturday, October 8, 2005

With less time to write, I have to cover more topics at once, and I’m not the most organized sort (I save all that for work), so bear with me.

  • Aaron and I got a chance to hang out with Peterson and his friend Ben last night. We met downtown and took a walk over to the North End, where we had a nice (albeit loud) dinner at Il Panino. I felt a bit guilty I’d chosen the place because the table next to us was SERIOUSLY loud. Ugh. I hate that. The food was good, and they made nice vegan treats for Peterson. He’s in town doing Queer 101, one of his one-man shows, for a local school. Peterson does the coolest thing. He’s an actor who spent 17 years of his life trying to not be gay, and then he came out. Now, he entertains and educates all over the world. He does pieces he write himself for all types of audiences, and then he often facilitates discussions afterwards. It’s such important work. He’ll be back for a performance of Doin’ Time at the Homo No Mo Halfway House on 10/25 at Northeastern. This is the piece I saw him perform in Memphis. It’s about his experience at Love in Action, the Memphis place (not a church or a mental health facility, but what is it?!) where he went to try to become straight. It’s a fascinating piece. I’ll make sure to plug it when the date approaches. Anyway, the Multicultural Educator in me just loved this show for so many reasons, and the theatre critic in me did, too. It’s soooo something you should see. (Read more about Love in Action if you’re interested.) Anyhoo, dinner was grand. Aaron got to talk about film with Ben, who actually runs a film festival – one I think that maybe my friend Poornima did once. And afterward, we went to Mike’s and got ice cream and sorbet and pastries. YUM!
  • The very sad news is that one of my parents cats, Kitty, seems to be dying. Mom is sad because Dad is soooo not a cat person, so she doesn’t really have anyone to commiserate with her. Kitty hasn’t eaten for 4 days. I suggested she give kitty some diluted wet food, and Mom just called and said Kitty took a few sip of some condensed milk, so that’s good news. Maybe it was just a really bad toothache, although Kitty is something like 18, so death is certainly an option. Makes me sad though. She’s always been a really strange cat, but I don’t care. I love her immensely.
  • Got a chance to talk to Elizabeth in Bloomington, which was really nice. I never call people. I don’t know why. I’ve just lost my interest in the phone over the last few busy years. It was great to hear her voice and to catch up with her. We may get to see her a bit in December, which would be grand.
  • It’s a very grey and windy day. We’re actually thinking of going downtown for a bit of shopping. Aaron says REI is having a sale.
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Comment by Bloomington Elizabeth

October 8, 2005 @ 5:40 pm

Sweet, I made the blog! 🙂

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Comment by Abby's mom

October 8, 2005 @ 8:10 pm

Kitty took a few sips of condensed milk, but that was it. I left the bowl in the room and over the next eight hours, she drank no more. Now I’m thawing out some homemade condensed chicken broth to try. I’ll let you know how it goes. Winnie is sitting vigil.

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Comment by Abby

October 8, 2005 @ 9:33 pm

Oh man. That is so sad. I hate that. I know it’s the natural order of things, but it still is so hard to deal with. You think Winnie will continue to stay in that room all the time when Kitty is gone? Jeep, MY black cat, has gotten extra love today.

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Comment by Abby

October 9, 2005 @ 10:14 pm

Mom just e-mailed. I’m not sure Kitty will make it through the night.

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Comment by Len Cleavelin

October 10, 2005 @ 1:06 pm

I saw the sad news on Dr. Dad’s blog this morning. My condolences. I know it’s not much, but having lost my own dog I know what y’all are going through.

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Pingback by Adventures with Dr. Lady Cutie Troublemaker » Blog Archive » Peterson Will Me on Montel Williams

March 12, 2007 @ 3:59 pm

[…] For those of you who’ve been long-time readers, you will remember my strong interest in a situation that went down outside Memphis a few years ago. A boy named Zach came out on MySpace, which prompted his parents to send him to Love in Action, a program which attempted to make their son straight, i.e. an "ex-gay". At that time, I became friends with a wonderful activist and actor named Peterson Toscano. He is an ex-ex-gay who spent time in that program himself and who now tours the world performing one-man shows which educate people about issues of sexuality, especially as they relate to what is called "reparative therapy". That euphemism means "repairing" what is felt to be "broken" sexuality. It means making it possible for gay people to live straight lives. In short, this is a stupid idea that isn’t even possible. If you want to learn more, peruse the archives on the topic here and elsewhere. On Thursday (3/15), Peterson will be on the Montel Williams Show. The topic will be Reparative Therapy. Check out listings in your area. I’ll be setting my TiVo. […]

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